Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Growing Like Christ

This week's post is a guest post from Scott Albright:

What do you know about Jesus Christ when he was your age? What did he do with his time? How did he treat his friends and family, most of whom had no idea of his real identity? It is unfortunate that we don’t have very many records that teach us about his day-to-day living. Indeed, I believe one of my religion teachers said that we only have details about 42 specific days of Christ’s life. The New Testament records the details of his birth and several incidents in his early years. When He was twelve we know that He went to the temple and was found, “sitting in the midst of the doctors, both hearing them, and asking them questions” (Luke 2:46). The next chapter after this verse in Luke gives the account of Jesus being baptized by John the Baptist, probably when he was around 30 years old. There is one verse that is found at the end of Luke 2 that teaches us about Christ from the time that he was twelve to the beginning of his ministry. It says, “And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man” (Luke 2: 52).

From this scripture we learn that when Jesus was our age He was growing intellectually, physically, spiritually, and socially. I am so grateful that the writer of this account chose to include this small description of Jesus during his development into an adult. It has provided a criteria by which I can evaluate my life as a student so I know how to spend my time. As Mormons, we try to follow Christ in everything that we do. Learning about how Christ grew and improved really helps us understand how we can follow his example.

At this stage in our lives it is so easy to have entirely unbalanced schedules as we juggle the demands of school with work with friends with sports with taking care of ourselves and staying alive! Among other things. As we apply this verse to ourselves it is important to remember that word “increased” and the concept of improvement that it carries. God loves us and cares that we are growing in all aspects of our lives. He understands that we are going to be busy with classes (or friends and dating if that’s the case), but he has created simple ways for us to continue to progress in all of these particular areas. I know that God wants us to be like Him and to enjoy all of the great blessings that He does. We can involve Him in our lives in more ways than through reading our scriptures and saying our prayers. He wants to be involved in our schooling, in our social sphere, in struggling to take care of our bodies, and in dating. I am grateful for this example of my Savior more than ever because it helps me to understand how I can grow into the person that God wants me to be.

Monday, January 20, 2014

Freedom to Choose


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What should I wear today?
How should I do my hair?
What should I make for lunch?
What do I want to be when I grow up?
What school should I go to?
What major should I pursue?
Who should I marry?
Should we have children?
Should I accept that job offer?
Where should we buy a house?
Which way do I go from here?

Decisions, choices, forks in the road….we face them every day. Some minor, while others of a more serious nature. The great news though, is that this was all a part of the plan!

Before human life began on the earth, we all lived in heaven. God’s plan was for us to leave heaven for a time, acquire life experiences through our choices, and then return to live with Him in heaven. I want to focus on an aspect of this plan; that is the part of our ability to make choices.

The Gospel Principles book, a teaching manual used in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, reads, “God has told us through His prophets that we are free to choose between good and evil. We may choose liberty and eternal life by following Jesus Christ. We are also free to choose captivity and death by following Satan. The right to choose between good and evil and to act for ourselves is called agency. One purpose of earth life is to show what choices we will make” (17).

So our ability to make our own choices is known as agency, and it is a gift! God wants us to make choices and learn from our own experiences. A verse of scripture found in the Book of Mormon emphasizes this point, saying, “Therefore, cheer up your hearts, and remember that ye are free to act for yourselves” (2 Nephi 10:23). So let us be excited about the decisions we have to make.

      Know this, that ev'ry soul is free
     To choose his life and what he'll be;
     For this eternal truth is giv'n:
     That God will force no man to heav'n.
     He'll call, persuade, direct aright,
     And bless with wisdom, love, and light,
     In nameless ways be good and kind,
     But never force the human mind.
                       (hymn 240, Know This, That Every Soul Is Free)

God, our loving heavenly father, knows that the best way to learn is through experience. He will guide and assist us when necessary, but in the meantime he gives us plenty of room to explore and experiment for ourselves. He trusts us to make correct choices, to recognize the good from the evil. And should we take a wrong turn, God will intervene and lead us to the right path. In the following video clip, Jeffrey R. Holland, an apostle of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, shares how this happened to him and his son on a camping trip one summer.



God does provide us guidance in life, and I am grateful for that. But how incredible that we are entrusted to make our own decisions. FREEDOM TO CHOOSE! Opportunities to learn. Experiences for growth. We need not be paralyzed with fear to take the first step. You can move forward, assured that God will redirect you if something is not right. 

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

What is happiness?

Throughout my life I have wondering the answer to this question. What is happiness? And with it came more and more questions. Is it obtainable? Is it sustainable? Are there only fleeting moments when we feel happy?

Don't get me wrong. I feel like I am a cheerful person. However like many of you, I feel life's burdens and I often wonder, am I really happy? When my organic chemistry deadlines hit, what seems like everyday, when I am told that my father now has type 2 diabetes, and even when I was assigned to do this blog post, despair comes setting in and I begin to question again—am I really happy?

Through my quest for what makes me happy I have discovered a few things. The first, and what I believe to be the most important, is the choice to be happy. This probably sounds cliché to many of you because sometimes it is those cliché things put into action that do the most good. I can remember one day thinking, "Wow, I just really want to be happy. Starting tomorrow that is exactly what I am going to do." I am not perfect at doing this but I can honestly testify of the truthfulness of this. Alma 41:5, which is from another book of scripture called the Book of Mormon, states that those who are happy in the resurrection are so because of their desire to be so.

Another way I personally discovered to find happiness in everyday life was finding ways to serve others in everyday life. For me when I know that I have helped other people and made their life easier it makes me happy. Somehow in the mix of doing service I often forget about what was preventing me from being happy in the first place. Plus King Benjamin, a prophet from The Book of Mormon, said, "When you are in the service of your fellow man you are only in the service of your God." (Mosiah 2:17)

Lastly I would like to share what my final thoughts are about happiness. Happiness is a day to day endeavor. We are all going to have trials everyday and I believe that the purpose of this life is being able to be happy and to find it amidst adversity and trials.

A modern day apostle, Elder Richard G. Scott, offers some great advice on the subject in this Mormon message as well.